Don’t we all wish that we were a gorgeous badass like Lieutenant Olivia Benson on Law & Order: SVU? Played by Mariska Hargitay, Olivia dates some of the hottest men television has to offer. While she has plenty of dates (and men who only wish they could take her on one), we’re breaking down the dudes who make it past an episode or two. And even though they have the best (platonic) relationship ever, no, her partner Elliot Stabler (Christopher Meloni) is not on the list. Season 19 premieres on Sept. 27, so if you haven’t made it through the first 18 seasons yet, beware that there are spoilers ahead!